It’s the eve of a family vacation.
A vacation we’re taking both of the kids out of school for.
See, each child has already had a spring break. Separately.
Which means this is my third spring break in six weeks.
I’m thinking of it as the ultimate in playing hooky.
There’s a bit of a risk to taking older children out of school for a vacation. As a matter of fact, the school policy handbook says this about it:
Vacations During School Time
Extended vacations during school time are discouraged. The school calendar is distributed to all families in June, and again in the summer packet. The purpose of this early distribution is to allow families to arrange extended vacations during the school holiday times. Assignments are not given in advance of pre-arranged absences, but parents/ students may always follow the daily assignments on the school website. These can be turned in to the teacher upon their return to school. In addition, a student may read or work ahead in subject areas. Students who miss school for an extended vacation during school time cannot demand the privilege of special, individualized tutoring from faculty members on missed classroom material, “makeup” work, or tests that were given during the student/family vacation time.
Okey dokey. That seems pretty clear.
But you know what? Sometimes when Dad’s been working for 108 days straight you need to choose family first.
You need to do something that helps you all reconnect, even at the risk of *kind of* violating a school policy.
Sometimes, to be the family you need to be, you need to put the rest of the world aside and reconnect the way it matters – with quality one-on-one time that doesn’t have all of the outside noise competing in the background.
And our family has a lot of background noise right now.
So I’m glad we’re getting getting ready to play hooky.
We need it.
xo
Missy









Totally agree with you Missy. When it’s time for family vacation, it’s time for exactly that. They can always make up school works as long as you talk to the teachers. Children will remember and cherish the memories of these family vacations.
Sela Toki recently posted..Being Both
Thank you, Sela. I think it’s the right decision too.
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
I think you’re doing the right thing. And besides, we know that the kids learn plenty when they are not in the classroom too. Enjoy the time with your family–you deserve it!
Margaret recently posted..What Should Bubba Read? | Enter to Win an Amazon Gift Card
Thanks, Margaret. It’s been a long winter!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Bravo! I took several years of high school French but couldn’t conjugate a verb to save my soul. On the other hand, I remember every detail the rainy day my dad let me play hooky in Kindergarten so we could play checkers and eat potato chips.
Victoria KP recently posted..Wordless Wednesday: Cold Turkey
I love your response. That’s exactly it. Family bonding and memories – they have to trump schooling sometimes.
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Good for you, and there is nothing like family time at the beach to rejuvenate!
Corey Feldman recently posted..Red’s first show
I agree, Corey, thanks. It’s like our home away from home.
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Playing hookie héh? You naughty girl. All I can say is : good for you!
Tinne from Tantrums and Tomatoes recently posted..Wordfull Wednesday : kitty thoughts
It is a little naughty – but totally necessary. Thanks for the well wishes, Tinne!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
You’re a thoughtful parent, and I’m sure your girls at at a place in their studies where taking them out for a week or so isn’t going to do harm to their grades, let alone their overall education. It’s not something you’re doing once a month or anything like that!
Go! Enjoy your time reconnecting as a family; experience outside of the classroom can end up finding millions of teachable moments
We just got my oldest’s report card and she’s only missed like 3 days all year. So yes, you are right – this isn’t a pattern, it’s IMPORTANT! Thanks, Angela!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
If there is a rule to be “broken” this is a good one to break!
Family time seems to be a premium these days…go. enjoy and make awesome memories!

Kelly recently posted..Pushing Pause
And the kids will grow up so fast, we need to take these moments when we can get them, right? Thanks, Kelly!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Make the most of family time, at the end of the day even if the children are in exam years, what matters more? It has all got so strict about absenteeism and school term holidays that it makes me sad, we always used to go away in term when we were little. Just the way it went. Make the most of any time you get, wherever it falls.

idiosyncraticeye recently posted..FO: The Saga of a Poncho
My parents used to take me out at different times too and I still ended up graduating from college and grad school. So I totally agree with you!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
What a wonderful idea! That is a serious policy. Yikes.
I wonder if they make it seem more serious, just to discourage? Hard to tell.
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Totally agree with this! Family time rocks. xoxo
tracy@sellabitmum recently posted..The Rude Girl in the Bicycle Dress
We did this last year and it was seriously the best family vacation we have ever been on. No time constraints, no crowds from Spring Break…it was a little slice of Heaven! Have a blast! I can’t wait to hear all about it!
AnnMarie recently posted..Please Have a Laugh at My Expense
The no spring break crowds part is going to be HUGE! Apparently it’s been a mess where we go this year. So happy about that.
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
I say it’s always the RIGHT time to do NOTHING and because I know how it felt to have a dad that worked and a mom that worked like both of you do, I can’t think of a better way or reason to take those kiddos out of school and ENJOY their family.
I’m actually VERY PROUD of you for doing this.
xo
Kir recently posted..Proud Mommy Moments: Robin of Farewell Stranger has Flown In
I know you totally get it, Kir! And it is so important for our family to re-connect right now. Thanks.

Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Hooray, you!
This former teacher concurs: Family first!

Galit Breen recently posted..Raising Kick Ass Girls
I’m so glad you agree from the teacher perspective, Galit!
Missy | Literal Mom recently posted..Being Enough
Go. Enjoy. You and your family deserve it. I’ve decided that rules are meant to be broken – because rules don’t ever take into account each individual’s story. And in your case – breaking school rules definitely sounds necessary.

Kate F. recently posted..Failing at Motherhood?
You know , I have to agree with the school policy, iwas designed to discourage parent from scheduling vacation during class days. However, I believe whe parents cannot get approval for vacation during school vacation days then I am all for kid vacation with their parent . The need quality time with their parents.
Annie recently posted..digest it
Good for you! I give that policy a big fat thumbs down! I’m sure the kids will benefit from a vacation and much needed family time!

Adrienne recently posted..Why I hate social media.