A Delicate Balance

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It’s been one of those weeks. Actually, it’s been three of them, and things at our house are off balance. I’m struggling to get it back. I was, and continue to be, thrilled with the ease and love with which my firstborn accepted his new brother. Other than one photo op with his favorite toy, [...]

Expectations: Getting it Right

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When my father was alive he was a firm believer in the power of positive thinking. So much so that he often asked me one question again and again: “Kiddo, if you could do something with no fear of failure, how would you live today? What would you attempt?” While I was reading the truly inspiring [...]

A Fish Out of Water

Growing up Bilingual | Just.Be.Enough.

In high school I once told someone that I would have been disowned by my family had I not been interested in and good with foreign languages. Although I might have been exaggerating — just a bit — the ability to learn a foreign language was something that ran through our veins. We are a family where [...]

Tag-Team Parenting

Toy Clutter

As a child tag was never my game. I didn’t like it and frankly I was no good at it. The sunset sky would begin to glow as the sun begins to fade behind the horizon. The lightning bugs would begin their dance. The neighborhood children gathered. I would hear them shout, “Let’s play tag!” [...]

Date Night

summer sandals, date night, parenting

I slide my feet into wedge sandals usually tucked into a corner of my closet, high and unworn enough to make me feel special, casual enough to avoid looking ridiculous at the art and music festival downtown. Darker lip gloss not meant for random smooches atop wispy blond hair and a purse not stuffed with [...]

Parents Are The Best Teachers

Parents are the Best Teachers | Just.Be.Enough.

I have a friend who has two boys, ages 3 1/2 and nearly 2. Her first son has been attending preschool since he was 2 1/2 and her youngest has been going to a twice-weekly two-hour ‘class’ in the same school since he was 18 months. My son is 21 months and has never been [...]

In Defense of Our Parenting Choices

I am here today to be judged by a jury of my peers with regard to my parenting choices. I have opted for pro se legal representation and will therefore be representing myself. I have sworn an oath and am prepared to offer my oral argument: Honorable jurors, I believe we are destined to encounter [...]

Singing the Second Child Blues

Always ready to help, especially with a forbidden screwdriver.

With researched articles echoing warnings in my mind, I did everything I could to keep Abbey from watching TV until she turned two years old. Dylan has watched television for many months now, and his second birthday isn’t until January. As Abbey neared six months, I carefully blended and froze a wide variety of organic [...]

Wordful Wednesday: In Search of a Parenting Manual

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My daughter started first grade this week, in a new school. A public school. In a system where – oh by the way – I also teach. So, hypothetically speaking, I should at least be acquainted with the basics of day-to-day life with a first grader.  You would think. But somehow, in all my readings [...]

Parenting Rituals and the Second Child

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When my beautiful boy, Austin, was born, his 20-month-old sister freaked out. And “freaked out” doesn’t really describe it. In tears at the pediatrician’s office, I remember the doctor telling me: There are 3 kinds of kids: Those that love the baby, those that ignore the baby, and those that lose their shit. Guess what [...]

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